I have a confession. Deep down I have a lazy side. I’d prefer to do only what I “feel like” doing, but still have success. You know I’d prefer to not work out or watch what I eat and lose weight. Or have a book deal fall into my lap and a book pour out of me that requires no editing. And the same is true of mothering. I want it to be easy. My kids to obey me, respect me, and on the rare occasion they disagree with me they respectfully state their opinion and don’t complain when I …