If you’re anything like me, you mess up as a mother all the time. I’m talking daily. And you know what? That doesn’t make us bad moms. It makes us normal. Have you been duped into thinking good moms never make mistakes? Never snap, never get impatient, never need a break or a weeklong vacation to Hawaii? Well, okay, maybe you don’t need a tropical getaway. But I’m guessing you do need somebody to tell you you’re not a bad mom—in spite of all your flaws. Today is your day. Here are five lies you might be believing about motherhood—and …