I heard myself say it to my friend, and at the time I believed it, but I knew reality was much different. “When things settle down, we can have lunch.” The truth is, things never really settle down. There are always a thousand things going on at once. That is just my life. But for some reason I always think things are about to settle down and my life will slow down. I’m a mom. What makes me think life will ever slow down? I don’t think it really matters how many kids you have, the life of a mom …