It hit me when she turned nine. I am halfway done with her…. I don’t mean I won’t be part of her life any more, but I won’t be the main influence. She will be out on her own, making her own decisions…AND it freaked me out. I haven’t done enough, taught her enough, loved her enough… Now let’s be real. Some of you moms are great at seeing your kids’ future selves. Somehow you synthesize what you know about them and their personality and you have a vision of who they will be. I don’t. My kids are mysteries …