1. Why do you think Chip said the most important thing is for a girl to be “light hearted”?
2. Why would “talking life too seriously” be a turn off for a guy?
3. Chip said, “Happiness is fleeting”. Is it possible to make it stay?
4. “I like a girl who can grow with me and not for me.” What do you think Zack meant by this statement?
5. Do you feel like Brandon was being realistic or looking for a way out when he said a girl should show “real patience” when a guy messes up?
6. Is Brandon looking for too much when he says he’s looking for a girl that won’t react?
7. Andrew commented that he was not attracted to a girl who shows disrespect to her parents? What do you think he is seeing in her when he sees disrespect?
8. Why does Andrew make a big deal out of something so common as talking behind someone’s back?
9. Do you think a girl willing to gossip about other girls is an indication she might gossip or be unfaithful to her guy?
10. Tyler said, “managing themself” was important to him. He didn’t really say why. Why do you think he finds that cool?
11. Erick starts out saying, “when I look back on my past relationships…” Is it really fair to use your past dating experiences as a measurement going into future relationships?
12. Erick also said he wanted a girl to love Christ with all of her heart and soul. Why did he say this was important? “If she loves Jesus first, all else will flow out of that.” Is Erick putting too much emphasis on a girl’s relationship with God? Is the word “all else” too strong?
13. Why do you think and feel she has to know she’s loved by God to love him?
14. Luke said a girl shouldn’t base her beauty on what a guy has said about her. Is this possible?
15. “If a guy’s heart is right they really care about a girl’s passion for the Lord and their security in their own beauty” Luke said. Why would these two factors be important to a guy “with his heart in the right place”?
16. Have you ever thought guys were attracted to the girls who acted needy or weak?

 Lynn Cowell is a Proverbs 31 speaker and the author of several books including her newest “Magnetic: Becoming the Girl He Wants”.  Her passion in speaking and writing is empowering wise women to raise wiser daughters. Her husband and their three children live in North Carolina where they love to hike, raft and enjoy anything combining chocolate and peanut butter.