Changing Our Position for a New Perspective ~ by Lynn Cowell

My heart was broken again; my crush crushing me. 

I remember questioning: Why, God? Why not him? Why break up now?

When God asked me to choose Him over him, my young heart obeyed, but not without a struggle. Lacking history with God, I hadn’t yet experienced the blessings of obedience. So I obeyed and hoped God knew what He was doing.

Through the breakups and broken hearts, God was moving me to a new place where He could reveal a side of Him I hadn’t experienced. I had to move “out of love” with a boyfriend in order to move “in love” with Him. I had to change my focus if I was going to truly reach my full potential.

My deceived heart kept up the fight, didn’t want to let go. It told me I was someone because I belonged to someone. God had a different message. He wanted to reposition me so I would know True Love.

Jesus had to change my position to change my perspective.

Out of His great love for me, Jesus didn’t leave me in the position where I was completely dependent on another person for love. Instead, He moved me to what was a lonely place so He could change the way I saw love.

It seems God often needs to change someone’s position so they can see things in a fresh way. Matthew 17:1-2 tells us “After six days Jesus took with him Peter, James and John the brother of James, and led them up a high mountain by themselves. There he was transfigured before them. His face shone like the sun, and his clothes became as white as the light.” Jesus had more to show three of the disciples, so He led them up a high mountain by themselves. A place away from others. A place not easily accessible. But a place where He would change their perspective. Here, before their very eyes Jesus’ face shone like the sun, and they heard God speak: “This is my Son” (Matthew 17:5a, NIV).

When the disciples had a change in their position, they experienced a change in their perspective on who Jesus was. It’s possible their self-perspective changed as well.

The breakup I went through as a young woman wasn’t the only time God changed my position to change my perspective. Moves, job changes, places I have held in people’s lives and people’s hearts … my position is constantly changing. Each change brings another opportunity for God to change my perspective. Like the disciples, I can see Him in new ways I haven’t seen Him before: my Provider, my Healer, my True Love.

Can you see an area where your position is changing? It may be in your responsibilities as a mom, a new job, at home or in your calling. In this new place, your loving Father wants to show you His perspective of who He is and what He wants to do in you and through you. Open your heart past the pain of change and ask God to change your perspective to see Him in this new place.

Lord, often change is painful and what I want isn’t always what’s best for me. Soften my heart to see past this pain and to see Your heart toward me. Give me Your perspective. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

Lynn has just released a new book: Magnetic: Becoming the Girls He Wants. Magnetic empowers young women to: 

·      Stop feeling powerless over your emotions and people’s opinions as you gain unshakeable confidence

·      Limit the draining affect of “girl drama” so you can invest your time in becoming the best you

·      Replace the agonizing frustration of wanting to be noticed and liked with a deep assurance that you already are

You can order your copy here.